I worry that I do the same. I am so often caught up in what I want to be true that I frequently avoid examining my own preconceived notions and biases. I tend to focus on my gut reaction rather than seeking wisdom from God. More than once, opening myself to the Holy Spirit has helped me in difficult situation; however, I so often try to "go it alone," leaving God out of many (maybe most) of my decisions.
Today's Gospel reading left out the following verse with Pilate's response of "What is truth?" Pilate asks this rhetorically, not realizing that the Truth had been standing before him. I should learn from this and look at the Truth that has already been presented before me.