In a sense, Christ is both. In today's mass we sang a song called "Wood of the Cradle" which draws comparisons between the wood used to make the manger that held the infant Christ and the wood used to make the cross that held the crucified Christ. Fulfillment in granting life and fulfillment through sacrifice are intricately tied together in Christian tradition.
Our homily focused on the importance of living like the holy family and the importance of family. For me, my family is everything; they are all that I have worked and suffered for. I do not claim to be the perfect father; I know that I am far from that, but I have tried to do what I could to give them a strong example, to raise them in the Catholic faith, and to give them the best chance that they have in life. I trust in God that He will lead them down the correct paths.